Tweet Share Share Email WhatsAppShares 0The word,”hate”, packs such a powerful punch. We know that it’s unhealthy, we realize it does nothing for us and we’re aware that it creates way too many trivial issues. However, at times we still embrace the ignorance of it all. As awful as it sounds, there’s a thin line between love and hate. In a perfect world, we’d all be able to disregard the gesture but here’s why we don’t; Ex’s! Too often we become involved with individuals that we share nothing in common. We become intrigued by their physical features or their talents even; meanwhile,there’s no compatibility. We look for love in all the wrong places and during that time someone usually gets hurt. When we’re hurt, we make irrational decisions from temporary emotions and at that point it doesn’t get any better. On the other hand, there are times that we attempt to choose the perfect mate and we’re all in. We give all that we’ve got only to find out that we’ve been misled. This is how we find ourselves in a one-sided relationship that only does us harm. After those relationships come to an end, we hold on to the pain and become bitter. Unfortunately, we learn to take advantage of any opportunity given to make it known. The Ex of Your Lover! As silly as this sounds, it’s true way too often. It’s elementary even! Especially when you’ve been disrespected on so many levels by their ex, right? Whatever happened to moving on respectfully. Now there are some of us that try to find reasons to despise “the ex”, while others feel intimidated by the presence of the “has been” because you suspect there’s still a fling going on! Either way, it makes no sense, right? There’s a cure for it and it’s one I’d highly recommend. It’s called GROWTH! There’s no judgement because we’re all familiar with these situations of some sort. GROWTH can fix it !